Recently, I found myself without a job. My company let me go, and honestly, it was time. Every season has its end, and my season there concluded. I accept that.

Anticipating this change, I worked diligently on my social media presence and personal website. Over the past 16 weeks, I consistently posted a blog every week, sharing reviews and various insights. Initially, my posts garnered around 200 impressions each. But as time passed, those numbers dwindled to about 50.

Then I lost my job. After updating my LinkedIn status to “open to work,” I suddenly received around 900 impressions on my profile. It struck me as tragic how people seem to only notice others when they’re down. This tendency to pay attention only during someone’s downfall is a sad reflection of our nature. Instead of genuinely caring about someone’s well-being or appreciating their contributions, we often rush to catch the latest gossip.

In professional networks like LinkedIn, we should prioritize supporting each other in finding employment and nurturing genuine relationships. I’ve been on both sides—needing a job and letting people go. Whenever I had to let someone go, I always offered my help for references and support, and I was fortunate to do so for a few individuals without expecting anything in return. That’s what connections should be about.

Some people have reached out with good intentions, and I’m grateful for that. However, subscribing to LinkedIn Premium has shown me that many are just interested in the drama. It’s unfortunate, but that’s reality.

I’ve often joked about LinkedIn and other job sites like Indeed. Despite their flaws, I’ve found jobs through them in the past, especially when I worked as an electrician. Today’s job market is highly competitive, especially for digital roles, with AI and remote work reshaping the landscape. Those willing to show up in person may have an edge, despite the growing preference for remote work.

The key takeaway here is to use your influence to help others. We’re all influencers in some way. Share someone’s resume, write that recommendation letter, and genuinely check in on people.

Despite my recent setback, I’ve been fortunate to connect with many people from diverse backgrounds. Within 24 hours, I’ve already had promising leads and prospects. I’ve built a webpage, formed an LLC, and created a business to ensure some extra income. We’re all replaceable, no matter how skilled we think we are. So, use your influence, no matter how small, to support others.

Thankfully, I’m in a stable situation. My wife, an accomplished engineer, has job security and frequent job offers. As a marketer, I understand the fierce competition in our field, given its relatively accessible degree.

Stand out in your field, and recognize that not everyone will follow you for the right reasons. Discern between those who support you and those who are merely curious about your struggles. Don’t take it personally—it’s just an observation of human behavior.

This experience has revealed both the best and worst in people. Despite this, I will keep my head high, continue working hard, and maintain my integrity and leadership. I encourage you all to do the same.